Nightlight Newsletter by Chuck Spezzano
January 2012
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January is the first month, the month of self. It reflects what you believe about yourself so look closely at the problems that occur. What is possible is that it could be a month of glory where you transcend the limits of the small self for Self. If you are facing the light, it will shine through you illuminating your life and guiding others. January is meant to be one of triumph but if you use it selfishly and turn it toward gloating, self-aggrandizement and the ego, you will limit what can be accomplished.
What holds victory back is the amount of unfinished business that needs to be healed. We bring these ‘carryovers’ from the past which show up as present problems. Our problems are where we are stuck. And when we are stuck, it shows places from the past we still believe others have “sinned” but this is to hide our belief in our own guilt.
January can be a month of triumphant transformation bringing greater safety or we can persist in beliefs that others have wronged us hiding where we have made mistakes that we feel guilty about and haven’t let go of. Yet, help is available to us. In this world of time and separation, help is available as soon as we ask. The Helper is called by many names: God, the Holy Spirit, the Tao, Heaven, the Christ, the Buddha and many more. It reflects aspects of timelessness and Oneness in a world of time and division. It is the aspect of Love in a world of fear. It is the aspect of Safety in a world of attack. When we ask for this help, we are given it and it changes our perception from guilt/blame/sin/wrongness to giving and receiving help and the reward that comes of it.
When perception is changed, healing occurs. Our perception is a choice. We can choose to see what is blameworthy or we can look on those making mistakes as needing help. How others act is how we choose them to act in the deeper reaches of our mind. We choose others to act as they do. We perceive them guilty to show how much better and special we are. This is the self-aggrandizement of the ego that occurs when we turn away from our purpose and from helping the world. This leads to victimization and acute suffering on our part as well as the blindness that sooner or later leads to pain.
Taking responsibility not only in regard to our actions and what happens to us but also for our emotions and our perception leads to a whole new level of healing. We begin to recognize our dark perceptions, hidden choices and miscreations and we become aware of our ego’s agendas that see dark events as joyful to fit its hidden agendas of separation and specialness. We learn what these are by asking such questions as: What am I using this event for or what is the purpose of seeing things this way? Then we can ask ourselves if our choice is justified or if what we see is what we really want. Finally, we can ask Heaven’s help and turn our perception and our mind over to Heaven for the shift.
To keep a healing attitude this month sets the tone for the whole year and leads to a Harvest Story for ourselves and those around us. Every day it is important to commit to healing all of our relationships past and present and to transforming our perception.
The first week in January is about healing the Sexual Fantasy – Guilt Conspiracy. These fantasies come from the need that arises out of separation and becomes a vicious circle as guilt increases separation.
The second week is about healing our greed, also based on separation and the inability to receive.
The third week is about awakening. We can release major chunks of the ego on the way to being God-Realized. Awakening increases mystic love while dissolving the ego. In the final stage of Awakening, we realize Oneness.
The fourth week brings up victim patterns for healing that have been carried over from the past.
The last few days of January and beginning of February are self-revealing. What turns up shows us who we think we are. This is what the whole month of January reflects but is intensified at this time.
May you have a blessed, healing month that sets the tone for harvest this year.
May you be helped on all levels.
May you live by grace.
May you be blessed by rewards.
Nightlight Newsletter
January 2012
Chuck Spezzano
Kahalu’u, Hawai’i
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